I'm in New York this weekend and I've been thinking a lot about fear. I am staying in Manhattan, but I rented a car since I have an event to attend in New Jersey. When I told people I planned on driving in the city, a couple of them freaked out. They seemed afraid that I would get into an accident or not be able to find parking. Or worse yet, I'd have to park in a garage and pay about $50 a night. In their eyes, renting a car would render me lost, dead, and/or penniless, in no particular order.
But as it turns out, my drive into Manhattan from New Jersey was fairly uneventful. I got to drive over the George Washington Bridge, and I only got honked at by one person (a cab driver who thought I should have run over a pedestrian rather than yield). And I found free parking right in front of my friend's apartment building, where I'm staying.
Today, as I wandered the city, I wondered why I didn't listen to the fearful voices that told me to just take cabs everywhere (which would have cost me a lot more money).